Spirituality involves an awareness of being
connected with something greater than the individual ego or self. This "something greater" has traditionally been
called God, Goddess, Allah, Great Spirit, the Almighty, the Absolute, and many other names. Some consider it as the Universe,
or as a sense of infinite order and beauty. Many individuals prefer to attribute no name whatever to it. But whether named
or unnamed, the awareness of a connectedness with something greater than the "I" has been a source of strength and
meaning for individuals throughout human history.
Individuals often find that their power of sensing and knowing expands as they mature spiritually.
These expanded capacities often involve the capacity to know yet-to-be events that lie in the future, as the unbroken stream
of prophets, visionaries, seers, and shamans throughout history attests. A modern analog of this ancient ability to know the
future is premonitions, sometimes called intuition, gut feelings, or sixth sense.
Premonitions are often regarded as unrelated to spirituality, but there are profound
connections. The most obvious involves love, as in the following example.
Amanda, a young mother living in Washington State, awoke one night at 2:30 A.M. from
a nightmare. She dreamed that a large chandelier that hung above their baby's bed in the next room fell into the crib
and crushed the infant. In the dream, as she and her husband stood amid the wreckage, she saw that a clock on the baby's
dresser read 4:35 A.M. The weather in the dream was violent; rain hammered the window and the wind was blowing a gale. The
dream was so terrifying she roused her husband and told him about it. He laughed, told her the dream was silly, and urged
her to go back to sleep, which he promptly did. But the dream was so frightening that Amanda went to the baby's room and
brought the child back to bed with her. She noted that the weather was calm, not stormy as in the dream. Amanda felt foolish
-- until around two hours later, when she and her husband were awakened by a loud crash. They dashed into the nursery and
found the crib demolished by the chandelier, which had fallen directly into it. Amanda noted that the clock on the dresser
read 4:35 A.M. and that the weather had changed. Now there was howling wind and rain. This time, her husband was not laughing.
Amanda's dream was a snapshot of
the future -- down to the specific event, the precise time it would happen, and a change in the weather.
Love appears dramatically as a mediator of premonitions in sudden infant death
syndrome or SIDS, the abrupt, unexplained death of an apparently healthy baby between one and twelve months of age. Premonitions
are a recurring feature in the experiences of SIDS parents. An example is Don, a physician in a large metropolitan area. During
the first trimester of his wife's pregnancy, he sensed the happiness his son's birth would bring would not be lasting.
A few months before the birth, he would occasionally find himself contemplating a nearby cemetery, where his son would eventually
be buried. The day he was born and Don first held him in his arms, he felt, for no obvious reason that the newborn was not
supposed to be with them. Beginning around two to three weeks before his death, Don would be awakened from his sleep with
thoughts of SIDS. The day before his son died, he heard a voice very similar to his own say repeatedly, "Take a good
look. This is the last time you will see him."
Don's apprehensions
increased when his wife planned a flight with the baby to visit her parents, who lived in another state. Although they disagreed
about whether the baby should go, Don didn't make his fears clear to his wife. As he was driving them to the airport,
negative feelings came flooding in. At the airport, walking to security, he heard a clear warning that he'd never see
his son again. He knew his baby would die during the trip. While walking back to the parking lot, the voice told him to go
back and get his son. Finally the voice softened and stopped, as Don ignored it and kept walking. Early the next morning his
wife called, hysterically relating that their son had died. He later would find that his aunt had similar apprehensions about
the baby.